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28.3.18

Should you Change your Appearance for your Mate?

Hey yall Hey and how's your day going so far? Mine is off to a pretty good start. This morning while taking my son to basketball camp I was listening to the radio and they were discussing a comment the beautiful Tamar Braxton made where she said she believes a woman should alter her appearance to please her mate. I'm not sure how I feel about this so Today my inner Oprah decided to discuss this with all of you, Let's Go!

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As many of you know I met my Hubby in the 4th grade and we've been together since our senior year of high school. As you can image after having 3 kids lots has changed over the years. My body has changed, my mindset has changed, the person I am today has changed. One thing that has kinda remained the same is the way my hubby feels about certain things. He has never been a huge fan of my hair or my choices in clothing. He has his style that he prefers and  I have mine. The thing is I have never wanted to put my likes aside to please my hubby. This doesn't mean he's not attracted to me or that I don't want him to find me attractive, this simply means that I have always thought it was more important that I like my clothing style and the way that I want to wear my hair. For me it's all about choices and somehow as weird as it may sound I think he appreciates me more for not giving in to his beauty standards and instead honoring my own. Should you change your appearance for your mate, Absolutely not! As long as you are happy with the way you look, the way you wear your hair and your style choices then those who love you should be fine with that as well!


In today's society there is so much pressure placed upon women. We have to have a small waist, big butt, flawless features, and more. I just think we are perfect just the way God made us but I'd love to hear how you feel on the subject. Should you change your appearance to please your mate? Have you ever been asked to change something and if so, how did you handle it?